Traveling with the ashes of a loved one isn’t just a logistical journey — it’s an emotional one. Whether you’re taking your father’s ashes back home, scattering your partner’s remains at a beloved destination, or relocating with the cremated remains of a pet, the process can feel overwhelming.

In recent years, transporting cremated remains by air has become increasingly common. But navigating TSA rules, airline policies, and proper documentation can quickly turn into a minefield if you’re not prepared.

So, what exactly do you need to know before taking to the skies with someone’s ashes?

TSA Says You Can Fly With Ashes… But There’s a Catch

The Transportation Security Administration (TSA) does allow passengers to travel with cremated remains in carry-on or checked luggage — but only if the container can be screened properly. This means metal urns or stone containers that prevent X-rays from seeing inside may be denied entry.

Here’s what the TSA officially states:

“Out of respect for the deceased, TSA officers will not open a cremation container, even if the passenger requests this to be done.”

Translation? If the urn is not scannable, you may miss your flight or be forced to leave the ashes behind.

Traveling With Cremation Ashes: TSA Rules, Airline Policies & Emotional Prep Guide (2025)

Best Urn Materials for Air Travel

To avoid delays or heartbreak at the gate, always choose a container made of:

• Wood

• Plastic

• Biodegradable materials

• Lightweight ceramic

These allow X-ray penetration, and most TSA checkpoints will let them pass with minimal inspection.

Fun fact: TSA officers are trained to recognize cremation urns but are forbidden from opening them. So, if your container raises suspicion and they can’t see inside, your only option may be checking it in — a risky move, especially if the airline doesn’t allow it in the hold.

Should You Check It In or Carry It On?

Most major U.S. airlines recommend that cremated remains be brought as carry-on luggage. Here’s why:

• Checked luggage can be lost or delayed.

• Temperature fluctuations and pressure in the cargo hold might damage certain urns.

• You have better control and oversight if it’s with you in the cabin.

Airlines like Delta, United, and American Airlines allow cremated remains onboard but often require advance notice or documentation, such as a death certificate or cremation certificate.

Always call the airline at least 48 hours in advance to confirm their specific rules.

Essential Documents to Carry With You

Even though TSA doesn’t legally require documentation, having the following on hand will greatly reduce chances of delay:

• Certified death certificate

• Certificate of cremation from the funeral home or crematorium

• A letter from the funeral director (optional but helpful)

• Airline-specific permission forms (if applicable)

Pro tip: Keep a physical copy and digital backups of all documents in case something goes missing during transit.

Traveling Internationally? Prepare for a Paper Trail

International travel with ashes is far more complex.

Some countries (like India, Japan, and United Kingdom) require:

• Customs declarations

• Embassy clearance

• Translations of documents into the local language

If you’re flying abroad, contact the embassy or consulate of your destination country weeks in advance.

Also, make sure the urn complies with international customs regulations, and always label the container clearly with your name, address, and contact number.

Can You Ship Ashes Instead?

Yes — but only via USPS Priority Mail Express. FedEx and UPS do not ship cremated remains.

When shipping:

• Use a Label 139 (for identification)

• Use a strong, sift-proof container

• Clearly mark “Cremated Remains” on the outside

This method is ideal for those who can’t travel themselves but still want the remains sent respectfully and securely.

Emotional Realities of Traveling With Ashes

You’re not just packing an item — you’re carrying a memory, a connection, a part of someone who mattered.

It’s okay to grieve quietly in an airport terminal. It’s okay to tell the TSA agent, “This was my mother.” And it’s okay to feel a surge of emotion mid-flight.

Remember: You’re not alone. Thousands of families make this journey every year.

Quick Checklist Before You Fly

TSA-friendly urn (wood, plastic, biodegradable)
All documents printed and saved digitally
Call the airline beforehand
Label everything
Prepare emotionally